Friday...

It was so funny...
It was so touching....
It was so awe-inspiring....
It was so heart-wrenching at times...
It was definitely motivating....

I'm referring to 'I'm Not Stupid 2'.....watched it with my bros juz now...Zhiwei and Junhui....
Changsheng had watched it oredi...and aniwaiz he had to accompany Fiona todae i tink....cos he called at 9+ to ask if i wanna join them both for bowling at 12mn...hahaz....i was too tired...
but thanks aniwaiz....i noe i've been kinda forlorn and downcast tis entire week, very tired....but i'm bouncing back fast....don believe? Ask zhiwei and junhui...hahaz...cos after the movie, i was totally ZAPPED....yah...the keyword which alwaiz hung arnd me all throughout last sem....

Also, Zhiwei commented dat usually I'm the one zapping them, but tis wk, hahaz, all of us seemed to be SAPPED (the opposite of zapped).....and no one was doing the zapping...nvm bro...nxt wk, i'll generate a gigantic streak of lightning and ZAP us all k! =)
Anyhow, u guys are the best man....The BrotherHooD of thE BeST eVeR...dat's wat we are man....hahaz.....

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The movie evoked various feelings and thoughts in me.....i shall skip the comical part cos it was expected to include quite a fair bit of humour....yah, the onli thgs i shall mention are the supposed youngsters' lingo these daes....which include 'Cool Man', 'So Lame' and 'Whatever'...hahaz....i'm a youngster too! cos i use those lingo all the time as well....Whatever...hahaz...kk, i noe i'm getting so lame..... =p

Alright, down to the main stuff i was tinking of.....To those who have watched the movie....I have a question for u....i asked my sis but i tink she couldn't see it...

Qns: What is a similarity between the 2 families and the Chinese teacher, Fu 老师?

Ans: They all love and care abt the child....regardless of whether it is their son or their student....BUT they all did NOT know how to express that love, that concern....

Which brings us to an issue rather pervasive in everyone's lives....Communication, and the willingness to express your feelings and thots in everydae life...

Communication
What is so hard about communication? Perhaps it is hard to some ppl, who sometimes might have inhibitions as to what to say, how much they are willing to expose themselves to others, to bare their souls to others....But wat does tis mean? Maybe a little insecurity on their part? On simply nonchalance?
I've alwaiz supported and lived by the principle of open communication....Communication is the key to resolve conflicts and quarrels....Communication is the key to keep relationships alive, healthy and vibrant....I alwaiz try to encourage my loved ones, my close frens to alwaiz communicate, cos if they don't, i wouldn't noe wat's on their minds...which is dangerous....and is a prelude to potential misunderstandings....

Praise
Communication aside, next is the willingness to express one's feelings...or the willingness to praise others....to look at their talents rather than their flaws....
Praising others....tis is even simpler than communication isn't it? No excuse...for if you fail to praise someone who deserves it for whatever reason, then it MUST be a case of nonchalance and disregard, unless you genuinely didn't notice it....
It's such a simple gesture....but it helps to elevate one's self-esteem so much...it helps to reduce the distance between ppl, it helps to forge stronger relationships, it helps to build the trust....it helps so so so so much....and it's free of charge! you certainly do not need to pay a single cent to praise somebody.....
BUT, please....onli praise someone if u r reali sincere abt it.....otherwise, it'll cause more harm than good instead...

There are many underlying morals of the story and other thots which will probably reali develop tis post into a 1000 word essay if i choose to elaborate.....well, i shan't....as a fren mentioned...sometimes memories are better remembered than recorded....

Aniwaiz, the height of the touching and heart wrenching part reached its peak when Chen Yiliang, ChengCai's father....said.....'I love you' to his son....even when he was lying on the hospital bed and was dying soon.....it was so touching....well, i noe it's juz a movie, but i'm sure there are real cases in life too....and so my nxt qns....

-Must it take such a drastic consequence to wake one(Chengcai in tis case) up?
Perhaps it was juz simply tragic for his case cos for the other family, everyone was unscathed and eventually had a happy reunion....well....in the case of ChengCai, of cos, his dad loved him alot but juz didn't noe how to express his love....he eventually did...by telling his son dat he loved him....i was reali touched....
But tis relates oso to an issue which i have been tinkin of recently....that is the taking for granted of someone or sth impt in ur life....well...moral of the story?? Never take for granted anyone or anything important to u.....for, very often, one onli feels the pain when one loses it....

I shall try to communicate more with my dad....cos i'm guilty of not doing so now....onli confide in my mum abt everythg....

Okie, it's 4+ am in the morning and i reali should stop....
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I have been blogging almost everydae tis wk....i've been very busy but somehow, i keep coming back to blog....i guess i juz had more emotional daes tis wk...

The movie helped alot.....I'm back to how i usually am....Yes, to my BrotherhooD, i'm bAcK! hahaz, i guess Changsheng will be the first one to experience my energy since he's coming over on sunday.....sorry huh, but i'll probably be very noisy and energetic again..... =p

Hmm, i'll probably post in the nxt entry if i missed out on anythg....Got a WiseUtd gathering tmr evening....dinner and most probably some drinks at clarke quay bar watching soccer! hahaz, WiseUtd.....

kk....bedtime....tink i can sleep well tonite, cos i feel great......i feel unstoppable....

I Love You....

Priceless Words....