Sunday...

Juz came back from my first IFG Canoe Polo training session in school tis morn....it was more challenging than I initially expected....hahaz, unlike the short 20+km expeditions which I embarked on, the SRC pool was the entire game area....however, it was so tiring cos of the intensive and ultra fast pace of the game....from one end to the other end of the pool, we'd be sprinting up and down during both offence and defence....
Adrenaline pumping I muz say....fortunately, I'm quite enthusiastic abt kayaking/canoeing...and so I reali enjoyed the training albeit the hot sun and sprinting...which I was still not used to...
The instructors were nice too, they were patient wif us, guided us and corrected our mistakes during the drills and friendly game itself....hopefully, Engin guys can win the IFG again....hahaz, cos i'm part of it tis time round.... =p

JC Class gathering at Suntec's Sizzler's last nite....it was actually my first time dining at Sizzler's...the food was quite nice lah.....10 of us.....hmmm, I tink nxt time when organising, we shld reali make sure we don leave anyone out...cos it's like not very nice....so I apologise for tis time round...hahaz, cos Darryl and I were not detailed enuff....
It was nice meeting up with all my jc frens, we enjoyed the reminscing, the lame jokes session, and of cos the gossiping! hahaz, lots and lots of gossiping....everyone contributed....
However, well, i don't know whether I am oversensitive or not, but the gathering somehow felt like a CSC gathering back in Dec...hmm, y do i say so? cos it felt a little awkward, everyone knew what had happened bet me and her.....but no one's saying anythg of cos....well, i dono how she is now, cos it seems like she didn't even wan to look at me....
i dono if u r reading tis, but if u r, maybe we shld reali hav a gd talk sometime?
Anyhow, another gathering this coming sunday....K-lunch at Cine....hope the training tis wk doensn't fall on Sunday again....den i can join them...

While lunching wif my sis yest, she complained to me abt her bf....apparently, he's someone who has a low threshold for stress tolerance....while dat might not sound bad enuff, tis might.....whenever he's stressed out over his office politics stuff (still a NSF), he will inadvertently, or sometimes even intentionally, look for thgs to quarrel wif my sis....dat's unreasonable isn't it? she told me of tis 'conversation' recently wif him...

Her: can u be more reasonable? (blah blah abt some issue...)
Him: No, it's JUST me, i'm like that, if u can't stand it, leave me....

WTF.....that was the first thot that came to my mind when I heard dat...okie sorry, no expletives....but well, he courted my sis for 1 yr, and they have been tog for barely 3mths now onli...i reali reali reali don understand....he took so much effort to get her to be his gf....y is he so not appreciative, so not cherishing it? he can still be so adamant abt his character....I reali cannot tolerate such nonchalance....it's nonsense....an insult to us guys....

Well, relationships can reali be rather challenging to deal with at times, but it's reali not dat hard, isn't it? I mean, if u wan someone, if u wan to keep sth going, or whatever intention one has, juz put in the effort, it's either success or a setback...no regrets whatsoever since one has oredi done one's part, and when u r clear abt wat u want...
At the end of the day, it takes 2 hands to clap....if one party decides not to reciprocrate or doesn't put in effort, then I'm sorry, that's the end....
and I'm sorry for the one who doesn't put in effort especially if the reason is cos of taking the other party for granted.....NOT sorry for the one who is suffering from the 'setback'.....it's clear that my stand is based on the premise of part fairness, part perseverance....part sth else (cant tink of it now)...

that said, I won't influence my sis or interfere too much in her r/s, but tis guy better wake up his bloody idea....otherwise he's going to be the one whom i'm going to be sorry for.....

hahaz, okie....breaking away from the serious tone, i'm going to learn sth from my mum oredi.....hahaz, Panda Mei probably noes best =p alright, reali reali gotta mug tonite oredi....i'm way behind the pack!!

Constant hardworking and determination is the key to success.

This is generally true for most things in life....An old fren imparted tis to me... =)