Wednesday, December 28, 2005

Wednesday...

time for reflections....it's dat time of the yr again....2005's coming to an end in juz a few day's time....a fren has told me several times dat 2005 has been a turbulent yr for her, with lotz of transitions and thgs happening....another has mentioned dat 2005 wasn't dat great either...

for me....2005 has been a rollercoaster ride.....i'd like to tink back on some of the things that hav happened to me and i wanna learn frm any lessons learnt....

Happy Moments

  1. Accepted into NOC program
  2. Took up more senior leadership postions in YEP and Biz Plan competition team
  3. Made many new frens from different faculties, ccas, and outside NUS
  4. Met up wif many old frens.....
  5. Managed to maintain my CAP...

Not so happy moments

  1. Letting go of a relationship of more than 4yrs
  2. Disappointment from the last min cancellation of the YEP trip in June
  3. Having had to deal with the stresses of exam simultaneously with the ambivalence of being single

well, guess those are the more major happenings....Recently, Amanda, a fren of mine frm business, reminded me of a quote.....she said....'What doesn't kill you makes you stronger'....i totally concur wif her.....life hasn't been a bed of roses.....but neither has it been so bad that my life is turned topsy-turvy......Looking at it from another perspective, these are trials and tribulations that the challenges of life present to one....

And when one surpasses these 'tests', one becomes stronger....mentally, physically, emotionally..

In the new year, 2006....it'll be another busy year for me.....well, I feel like taking up a new CCA...yesh yesh, i noe every sem i keep saying i'll relax for the next sem but I continuously pile new responsibilities on myself....dat's y tis time....i wanna join some relaxing and fun cca....like maybe pick up some skill or sport.....i dono......like dance? or photography? or a sea sport?? any recommendations anyone?

Aniwaiz, i'd reali like to thank all that my family and frens hav done for me over this past yr....regardless of the help rendered, perhaps in the form of simply a listening ear, or kind advice and words, i reali appreciate all of dat.....having said that, i will also hav to reflect on the lessons learnt....for instance,

  • manage my time better so as not to compromise relationships with others
  • be more focused on what i want to achieve this semester and in 2006
  • ensure that i don take anything or anyone for granted
  • be less harsh on myself, ie., set more realistic and sensible goals
  • put in more effort in maintaining relationships arnd me....

I look forward to forging new friendships and relationships as well as strengthen existing ones further....Hope that 2006 will be a fantastic year for all of my loved ones and myself...

had a very fun christmas celebration....lookin forward to new year celebration now...

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